So for starters you know one thing I remember thinking was that life will be all figured out at a certain point.
/soʊ fɔr ˈstɑrtərz ju noʊ wʌn θɪŋ aɪ rɪˈmɛmbər ˈθɪŋkɪŋ wʌz ðæt laɪf wɪl bi ɔl ˈfɪɡjərd aʊt æt ə ˈsɜrtən pɔɪnt/
首先，我记得我曾经想过，生活最终会在某个时刻得到解答。
But now that I'm 29 and that still has not happened I wonder if we'll ever feel like we have it all figured out.
/bət naʊ ðæt aɪm ˈtwɛnti naɪn ænd ðæt stɪl hæz nɑt ˈhæpənd aɪ ˈwʌndər ɪf wil ˈɛvər fil laɪk wi hæv ɪt ɔl ˈfɪɡjərd aʊt/
但现在我29岁了，而这仍然没有发生，我想知道我们是否会觉得一切都已经弄清楚了。
I almost feel like it's opposite you know sure there are lots of parts of my life that are quite solid.
/aɪ ˈɔlmoʊst fil laɪk ɪts ˈɑpəzɪt ju noʊ ʃʊr ðɛr ɑr lɑts ʌv pɑrts ʌv maɪ laɪf ðæt ɑr kwaɪt ˈsɑlɪd/
我几乎感觉恰恰相反，你知道，我生活中有很多部分是相当坚实的。
But also as the years go by I feel like I sometimes get more confused like I have more questions.
/bət ˈɔlsoʊ æz ðə jɪrz ɡoʊ baɪ aɪ fil laɪk aɪ ˈsʌmtaɪmz ɡɛt mɔr kənˈfjuzd laɪk aɪ hæv mɔr ˈkwɛstʃənz/
但随着岁月的流逝，我感觉我有时会变得更加困惑，就像我有更多问题。
And I question my beliefs and my thoughts and I change my mind on a lot of things.
/ænd aɪ ˈkwɛstʃən maɪ bɪˈlifs ænd maɪ θɔts ænd aɪ tʃeɪndʒ maɪ maɪnd ɑn ə lɑt ʌv θɪŋz/
我质疑我的信仰和想法，我在很多事情上改变了主意。
So one thing that I've talked about shared with you guys briefly in the past was this question that I have which is you know do I want children.
/soʊ wʌn θɪŋ ðæt aɪv tɔkt əˈbaʊt ʃɛrd wɪð ju ɡaɪz ˈbrifli ɪn ðə pæst wʌz ðɪs ˈkwɛstʃən ðæt aɪ hæv wɪtʃ ɪz ju noʊ du aɪ wɑnt ˈtʃɪldrən/
所以我之前和你们简单分享过的一件事就是我有一个问题，那就是我想要孩子吗？
I did not think that I would be 29 wondering if I always thought that it was a question of when.
/aɪ dɪd nɑt θɪŋk ðæt aɪ wʊd bi ˈtwɛnti naɪn ˈwʌndərɪŋ ɪf aɪ ˈɔlweɪz θɔt ðæt ɪt wʌz ə ˈkwɛstʃən ʌv wɛn/
我没想到我会在29岁的时候思考是否要孩子，我一直以为这是一个时间问题。
But the answer is not obvious to me at all and you know it's one of the things where you kind of want to make up your mind ASAP but I haven't gotten that part figured out yet.
/bət ði ˈænsər ɪz nɑt ˈɑbviəs tu mi æt ɔl ænd ju noʊ ɪts wʌn ʌv ðə θɪŋz wɛr ju kaɪnd ʌv wɑnt tu meɪk ʌp jʊr maɪnd ˈeɪsæp bət aɪ hævnt ˈɡɑtən ðæt pɑrt ˈfɪɡjərd aʊt jɛt/
但答案对我来说一点也不明显，你知道，这是你想要自己决定的事情之一，但我还没有想清楚这一点。